"You are out of your element." Not a judgement and not pitying, just an observation. It isn't usually hard to tell what Sarah's thinking.

"France. Her husband's family is there." And while there may still be a hint of disappointment, it's only because she knows Diana won't be returning home. Her niece is grown up and out on her own now. She's finally gotten used to the idea of her consorting with vampires. She'll even grudgingly admit to liking a few of them.